Blog: Nervous Before Knocking? Quelling Pre Session Nerves The Right Way!

I have to admit, I’ve been sparse for ideas lately for this blog. Faithfully writing for over 6 years on every topic revolving around kink that my wicked mind can come up with, sometimes leaves me starting at a blank screen. Tonight however, a fresh topic presented itself – and one that I’ve never quite zero’d in on in any sense for those visiting a dominatrix…. . How to calm your nerves BEFORE you knock on her door! . Yeah yeah, I’ve written about working up the courage to play, and I recognize…

Nervous Newbie?

  I’ve said it before, but it’s worth repeating – I find it very important that before someone arrives here for their play date, that they feel a sense of comfort and trust for me. Having a first session can sometimes be tricky – however the biggest detriment to your good time is going to be nervousness. When you call to discuss a possible booking, you need to relax…don’t work yourself up with the idea of who I am, because quite truthfully I am not yet your Mistress. I am a…

New Review: Ginger

A review of Domina Victoria Rage for nervous newbies. (by a former nervous newbie) After well over a year of reading Domina Victoria Rage’s web site and blogs I finally got up the courage to send her an email requesting an initial session. And what a relief it was to finally reach out to this delightful woman. Her response was kind and encouraging and we set a date for 2 weeks out. I’d finally made a date with a dominatrix. Then waiting for 2 long weeks. I’ve never been so…

New Review: Joseph C

Written By: Joseph C A good Dom is hard to find, but good customer service is even rarer. I have been seeing Mistress Rage for several years now and I consider myself one of her “irregulars”. By this I mean that I see her between four and six times a year for the past few years making me a reoccurring guest of her dungeon, but I am not one of her more frequent visitors so I feel like I can speak on this subject with familiarity, without being super biased.…

New Review: From Jeff D

Original Screen Shot: Wow is really all I can say about the session I had with Mistress Victoria. It was my first time meeting Mistress after following her on Twitter for over 3 years. I was extremely nervous about experiencing a long awaited fantasy but Mistress made me feel at ease quickly. After a brief chat about pertinent information I was offered a shower. Upon exiting the shower it was time to submit completely. Mistress was feeling in a generous mood and allowed me to pick one of three different…

Blog Post: Hello Sweet Stranger, Are You Ready For Me?

    I’ll come right out and say it, I love novices.       Admittedly, with my schedule often dominated by my dearly beloved regulars, I don’t have as much time as I used to for such appointments. However, this month I’ve been graced with some thoroughly amazing encounters featuring brand spankin’ new playmates. Let me tell you, it’s just been the most revitalizing experience. .   Luring novice visitors into my web however is another matter. I know so many of you sit curiously at your keyboard, researching, lusting and hoping, only…

Blog Post: 20 THINGS YOUR DOMINATRIX WANTS YOU TO KNOW

Dearest Readers, Today’s blog post I write from my gorgeous sunny back yard, procrastinating a bit on moving forward with some much needed work on my yard and garage, I suddenly realize there’s no better time to expand a bit on some thoughts I’ve had this season – than literally RIGHT NOW. (can you tell I don’t want to weed today?)  With new clients starting to take hold of their sexual destinies, novices coming out of the woodwork and seasoned clients begging for the next step – it’s really time…

Hello Sweet Stranger, Are You Ready For Me?

  I’ll come right out and say it, I love novices. Admittedly, with my schedule often dominated by my dearly beloved regulars, I don’t have as much time as I used to for such appointments. However, this month I’ve been graced with some thoroughly amazing encounters featuring brand spankin’ new playmates. Let me tell you, it’d just been the most revitalizing experience. . I’ve always had a particular place in my heart for the nervous newbie, and that stems from a certain bit of confidence I have in my ability to help people be a bit more self…

Marked For Me: Artfully Exploring Decorative Needle Play

If you’ve been peering at my tweets lately, you might be a little nervous with so many photos floating around where I’ve done very bad things to very sweet men.. Piercing may be the flavor of the month, both by request and by my own growing interest, but before I chat about this more – let me assure any nervous suitors that I really only play consensually. If you aren’t into needle play; don’t fret, we won’t be doing it! I have zero interest in pressuring someone who’s firm against…