Month: August 2011

  This is going to be a stretch, but I’m curious if any of my readers happen to know of a house keeper who is comfortable working around BDSM equipment… I will say right off the bat, I’m NOT looking for slaves or sissy maids here, I want a PROFESSIONAL that I pay to spotlessly clean my home. It’s a business exchange only. I’ve always wanted to try this but because my house looks kinky – I’ve  felt it would make the person who had to work with me, very uncomfortable.  Of course,…

I’ve been really enjoying the Summer , maybe a bit too much and I feel like I haven’t gotten a chance to take advantage of all the potential playdates I could have had. That said, and perhaps because my new electro toys just arrived, I will be opening up my availability the rest of the month! So from today Wed 24th – Wed 31st, I will be available EVERYDAY from 10am-Midnight. I will NOT be taking off Friday and Sunday as I normally would. Really,  I’ve got to do something to…

I’m not surprised in the age of convenient technology, nearly anything can be done from a cell phone – even things that are still best done in more traditional ways. I think communicating with a domiantrix is one of those things that should NEVER happen via text, unless you’ve become familiar with her and she’s given you permission to do so. Makes sense, right? Disappointingly, I get about 25-30 texts per day, ranging from comments like “how much” all the way to people trying to schedule an appointment. I can…

I have a “work out boy” who is regularly punished with very vigorous physical exercise. He comes to me because he’s repeatedly failed with gym memberships, personal trainers and various home work out aids – the motivation just doesn’t stick with him past the initial excitement of taking of something new. Certainly THIS will be the machine/program/person/video/aerobics class to help me lose those 50 pounds! He’s been playing this game for years – until he met me. I have him on a diet and exercise program, one that’s strictly monitored…

I’ve been known in the past, to privately email some of my regular visitors when I’m offering  a cancellation discount, different availability or something “special” that I wouldn’t necessarily want to post publicly on my website. As soon as I update my site with anything of the sort, it does confuse the casual viewer into thinking that’s what they can always expect and I’d really like to avoid that whenever possible. So, since I  do occasionally have cancellation discounts, last-minute availability, off hours, early mornings, or the random desire to just play with…

“Mistress, I feel so helpless to you, I just want to worship you”…. Ah, alright, in what way? How do you define “worship” my dear play toy? “I want to service you orally Mistress, to be humiliated by licking your divine body!” This is a real excerpt from a conversation I just had; it made me roll my eyes not just in annoyance but also in the thinly veiled attempt to bypass my boundaries because this boy felt that going down on me, would somehow be humiliating. Puh-leaze! Body worship…

Here’s a topic that seems to come up all the time and is the bane of many a submissive visitor. You have VERY specific fantasies in mind, certain words and activities that need to be included into their playtime “just so” to create that ultimate experience you’ve been looking for…BUT, you struggle with the concept of sharing that because you don’t want to be seen as topping from the bottom. I assure you, there’s a difference between being communicative in what you like and being a bossy bottom. The thing…

So the other day, I did a post of exploitation featuring my little blackmail bitch. As expected, it a LOT of attention, so much so, that it brought back a pet I haven’t had a chance to play with in a while. This little tart is Vanessa. Now the thing about Vanessa, is she’s a MAJOR exhibitionist. One day soon, I’ll need to take her out in public to satisfy her need for kinky play, but in the meantime a little exposure to you – my dear audience – will have…