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“Is all BDSM painful?”

 

I’m a fulfiller of fantasies; a sadist, a sensualist, a hedonist and all around self gratifying individual. Those who know me well are probably laughing quietly over how very true that really is.

I wear those badges proudly because accepting the simple fact that I love pleasure has brought me unspeakable peace. I don’t fight it and I certainly don’t question it.

With that, I’ve found I have a drive to share the freedom I feel with others. My medium is domination….

It just so happens that I am a lot of people’s first Mistress; I am a natural nurturer and have a strong ability to draw people out of their shell enough to give their curiosities a try. However, with being “new” to BDSM, there’s always a lot of uncertainty about what really happens in a session.

BDSM has may interpretations. For those coming across it for the first time, despite the allure, there can be a good bit of unnecessary intimidation. Is what happens in a real D/s scene like what you see on websites and magazines? Does it leave marks? How bad does it hurt? Is it all extreme?

Let me assure you, coming to see a professional is about letting go and finding freedom in surrender. Wether that means surrender or your physical body or simply surrender of your inhibitions, it’s meant to be enjoyable and gratifying. Nothing happens in a session that you’re not ready for, and every visitor is unique. If we Mistresses break our toys – we won’t get to play with them again!

I may humiliate, spit on and whip someone I see in the morning but if you need a softer approach, I’ve got more than one shade to my personality. I can be a very gentle woman; mild bondage and tease play are just as much my speed. You’d be shocked…unless of course, we’ve already met.

So if you find yourself constantly drawn back to the BDSM ads section or better yet, a particular Mistresses website – don’t over think it. Take a deep breath, clear your head and dive in.

2 thoughts on ““Is all BDSM painful?”

  1. OMG, Domina Rage, Your way with words and the rivetingly beautiful way You look in Your photos are positively sublime. You make my imagination leap every time i look upon You or read Your delicious words. Thank You for being so perfectly, ideally, dizzyingly open and adventurous. If i were only closer geographically, oh, the things i’d be elated to explore. . . May Your weekend be as wonderful as You are.

  2. […] in this case is Mistress Victoria Rage. Her blog is here and this image was taken from one of her posts on the subject of BDSM and pain. She’s a pro-domme who’s based out of Seattle. Despite our co-locality I’ve not […]

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