I’ve never been indirect with my intentions.
If I’d like to whip someone, I tell them, I don’t feel a need to invent reasons or concoct some imagined scenario to justify myself…. I simply inform my playmate that I feel they need to be disciplined and I’ll be using my lash. It tends to make things easier for both of us when you’re just honest and straightforward. I take this approach in all avenues of my life and as you can likely guess, it’s worked out quite well for me.
Now, I don’t expect this to work for everyone all the time, however within the confines of my space, I expect my playmates to behave similarly. I don’t want you to shy behind some sort of faux virtue in hopes that one day, I’ll compose a scene for them that just hits the nail on the head – by chance. Really, in the width or breadth of my kinks (assuming the scene ideas are left entirely in my hands) this could take quite a while to discover your individual wants and needs. I expect you to be straightforward; and no, I don’t consider open dialog and communication to be topping from the bottom. I allow you the freedom to tell me what you really crave and by ‘allow’, I really mean demand.
I know what you’re thinking…since I’ve heard it a million times from red cheeked men, blushing furiously at the thought of sharing their deepest desires with a near stranger. How on earth do I compose my thoughts enough to convey them? How to I just tell you?
Well my lovely, scary as that question may be, you’re a bit braver than you think. By the time you’ve reached by dungeon door, you’ve already admitted quite a bit about yourself already. Namely, that kink is more than a fleeting urge. You want it, you want it enough to pay for it, to get ready for it, to schedule and show up for a play date. And as you park in front of my studio, taking that fateful walk to my door, you’ve had a million chances to turn tail and run, but you don’t. Your desire has outweighed everything else….and then, you knock. That’s a primal desire overpowering your self inflicted nerves.
I respect that urge, the curiosity that lead us out of the cave to explore new realms and find out what was over the next horizon. Those primal pioneers that pushed ever forward to conquer the world had the same blood running in their veins as we do now, and in that expansive and forward thinking spirit, I invite you to do the same with a journey inwards into yourself. Venture into the darkest avenues of your lusty spirit and ask yourself what it is you really want.
Do not hide from yourself – do not hide from me. Allow the same bravery that led you to my presence in the first place guide you to a bit more self realizing honestly and let’s explore the depth of what you really need to find peace and gratification.
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Mistress Victoria
it’s been a long time since I follow you on your blog, website or other website
I think my humble person did you ever hide my intentions and that those days are always the same and I did not change my ideas
I find it unfortunate that the distance, sometimes the small problems of different language separates us, but I love you like that, since the beginning, my chix and my desires to join yours in alot in common
your humble servant
shannon o cylliam
Well spoken Mistress.
Mistress – Those who fear their own fantasies will suffer more in frustration than they ever would in pain!
Extremely well said my dear!