Month: September 2016

How many times have you stared blankly at your fetlife profile or glanced through your phone, wishing you had a photo that truly encompassed your most erotic moments in fantasy fulfillment? Memory so often fails at defining all those most cherished details… . Especially if you’ve had a chance to visit a professional, indulge a satisfying party or otherwise get your fix; did you later regret that you didn’t seize the moment to savor it, capture it and walk away with that perfect momento to look back on when you…

. The other day, I was having a quiet lunch with a friend; a fellow SW who’s been around in the public view of the industry for MUCH longer than I. Truthfully, I look up to her, she’s awesome, gorgeous, street smart and full of worldly knowledge that anyone would be envious of. I usually look at her as a trail blazer or a beacon of good advice, but really – she’s just the kind of person that exudes good sense and a life well lived. . During our talk,…

Keeping in touch and trying the next NEW social media app has always been my kind of thing… . Well, I should say it *was* until the TOU brigade and safety police began cracking down on my favorite sites left, right and center, leaving many of my usual haunts a very PG landscape where a photo of a man in proper bondage would land me with a ban. Needless to say, I really found that to be rather joyless and pathetic, but I understand rules are rules. . Since being…