My Covid Protocols: Sanitation, Separation & Keeping Safe.

I feel like I really should have gone through this ages ago, but it’s time I detail my current covid protocol and sanitation steps for the peace of mind of my visitors and potential suitors weighing the pros and cons of an in person visit. For those of you who asked and those of you who generally wonder but don’t know how to broach the subject – let me take a moment to dive in and let you know what I’m doing on my side for your safety and peace…

Thank You! Surviving 2020

It seems strange on a random December afternoon, that I would finally be starting another blog post. I had every intention this year of chronicling much more of my deviant adventures, updating you on new furniture and all around using this page as a non stop promo machine – but like most things, the moment the reality of 2020 set in, this blog suddenly felt like a frivolous luxury. I lost motivation and neither wanted to brag nor shine a spotlight on anything that seemed focus stealing. Not like me…

Blog Post: Providers Are Body Blind – I Swear. A Plea To Stop The Dick/Gym Pics.

We might, as providers, need to keep ringing this bell for a while until it becomes accepted across the board. So many of us have tweeted and blogged it in the past, but it’s shocking how often this topic falls on deaf ears. Maybe our approach is so polite and gentle that it comes off as sacchrine and insincere – but as a bit of a niche portion of the SW world – I’m going to lay out the WHY in some blunt truths: providers don’t give a second thought…

Blog Post: Holiday Happenings And Hedonism

Most people will be doing one of two things at the end of this week: spending a very vanilla few days fully immersed willingly or not in the throes of the holiday vibe – or – if you’re lucky, completely holed up at home avoiding it altogether. I enjoy celebrating, but my version of things tends to involve a lot more nudity and obscenities than the average get together. If you’re like me, you’re playing along with a Julie Andrews style smile plastered on, but you’re tired of the decorations…

Blog Post: Ripping Down The Censored Tape

Oh hell…once again I’ve neglected this blog. No intentionally I admit. I’ve been making a clear choice lately in self censorship…but one I now deeply, violently, feel annoyed by. I used to LOVE having this avenue, somewhere away from my professional site where I could truly speak my peace and get a little more dirty and a lot more personal. My feelings about this dark little avenue haven’t changed, nor will I be deleting past posts, but you’ll have noticed that I, like many providers – find myself a bit…

New Review: Brent B

This was my first visit with Ms Victoria. I wasn’t sure what to expect when I first met her but when she welcomed me into her dungeon she sat me down and we got to know each and told me what to expect. I had scheduled a four hour session with her and wasn’t sure if we would get through all of my fantasies that I had requested and believe me I had more than a few of mine that I wanted to try and she introduced me into some…

Blog Post: Own Your Sexuality!

Not too long ago, I went over and finally joined reddit. I know I’m behind the curve, but honestly, I just wanted to be a part of a social community where I didn’t have to duck and dodge an account closure for being a SWer.  As many who know me won’t be surprised, I started gravitating HEAVILY towards the bdsm advice section. Even if it’s a less formal set up then say, fetlife, I’m so pleased that sort of gathering space exists. I remember urgently searching for stuff like that…

New Review: Ginger

A review of Domina Victoria Rage for nervous newbies. (by a former nervous newbie) After well over a year of reading Domina Victoria Rage’s web site and blogs I finally got up the courage to send her an email requesting an initial session. And what a relief it was to finally reach out to this delightful woman. Her response was kind and encouraging and we set a date for 2 weeks out. I’d finally made a date with a dominatrix. Then waiting for 2 long weeks. I’ve never been so…

New Review: m6ster1988 !

Let me start by stating that I do not profess to be eloquent when it comes to expressing myself with paper and pen, or in this case my tablet. I also am not one to write reviews. That said, I do feel the need to relate my experience with Domina Victoria. If you read her blog, she recently related her pleasure in introducing newbies to her web (http://dominasdiary.com/index.php/2019/05/19/blog-post-hello-sweet-stranger-are-you-ready-for-me/). Not to be narcissistic, but I couldn’t help but believe that I might have been one of her newbie introductions. You see,…

New Review: Bob M

This will be a bit different so please bare with me. I have not met the lady, chatted briefly only in several emails. I haven’t served her, though I would in a heart beat if things changed. That she is a fantastic dom that everyone loves, I have absolutely no doubt. That she can warp you into any shape while being tied down I have no doubt. I found her blogs & twitter posts over a year ago & started reading. Wow, what a lady …. What I have discovered…