(July 19th) My 28th Birthday & 10 Year Kinky Anniversary

As much as I adore the fanfare of birthdays, more so throwing them for others rather than being on the receiving end; this year is important to me and I will be making a big deal about it. I know I say that every year and almost never do anything to celebrate aside from sleeping in past noon, but this time I’m quite serious. In 30 days, I will finally be passing a huge milestone in my life and career.

I remember 10 years ago, sitting in the waiting room of Dominant Divas. The very first dungeon I worked for, with an admittedly very cheesy name. Nevertheless, they were close enough to my home to make it a viable workplace and willing, at the very least to interview an ambitious and newly 18 kinkophile.

The interview questions for the job were all quite typical, feeling more like an interview for a receptionist position than for that of a woman who wanted to be elbow deep in latex and urethral sounds; education, experience, availability and the obligatory “where do you see yourself in 10 years?”.

My answer was an immediate – I plan on running my own dungeon!

With a laugh in her voice, my interviewer kindly informed me that this is a transient job at best!  Girls come and go like the change in the wind, but rarely do they really stick BDSM long enough to make it a career.  She continued, I should probably just have fun with it for now and consider a more serious career for the long-term.  Oh my….

I knew at that moment, she didn’t deserve to run this dungeon – or any dungeon – with a mindset like that.  At the time, I wanted the job so badly (or at least, access to their equipment and customers) that I kept my mouth shut. I vaguely remember biting my tongue so hard I could taste blood as I let her comments pass without so much as a blink.

Save the ‘more serious careers’ for those who have a pressing need to contribute something more holistic, I crave entertainment and stimulation, normalcy just doesn’t work for me, and yes, even at 18 I already knew that, and I proceeded to steal the vast majority of her client base simply because everyone wanted to see the “new Mistress with the good attitude” – a comment I overheard on the phone one day.

10 years later, Dominant Divas is long closed (no surprise) and here I remain, celebrating this fabulous milestone.

I’d like to spend the next 30 days indulging in what I love most, and as busy as I normally am, especially this time of year, I’d love to spend it with the ones I enjoy my time with. If you’re feeling kinky and need to scratch that pervy itch, my energy is quite high and I’d love to use some of it up. What better gift than offering yourself up as a plaything for my celebratory occasion?

And if you’re the sentimental type who’s inclined to send your well wishes my way or simply offer a polite token of gratitude, my wish lists can be found on my website here: http://victoriarage.com/WishList.html

…though I’d much prefer having you darken my dungeon door step 😉

4 comments

  1. Hi mistress this is boy happy birthday & anniversary. I can’t wait too see u this Saturday for are very long session. Thank u for mention me on your Twitter account I can’t wait for the wax art. July will be a good month with birthdays yours on the 19th & your slaves birthday on the 21st. I miss u plus I have been verrrry good. Love boy

  2. Sorry ma’ma I hope I didn’t repeat here but I didn’t sign in first. But happy birthday & anniversary. Can’t wait too see u this Saturday on are very long session. Plus thank u for mention me on your Twitter account can’t wait too be your model for the wax art. Thank u for purchasing the candles on your day off. Plus July will be a good month your birthday on the 19th & your slaves on the 21st. I have been good all week Love boy

  3. OH Mistress Victoria, beautiful story that is your life, you taught me when I was younger never give up those dreams and desires, always do what you dream, to go to the end of these possibilities and still believe even be in a trade that is not yours is easy and nothing is won in advance, compliance with these customers, courage, listening, and paying attention to all the little things of life, who work force toughness, make you each day a person, loving and loving Mistress, not that of the customers, but also other people, I admire you very much, because I know and I understand all of difficulter your metier, “the dreams, fantasies” are so difficult to achieve by either even, that we will always need Dominant Mistress like you, a million thank you to you and long life to you Mistress Victoria

    (in 2013 I think was your birthday maybe a french gift )

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