Month: August 2012

I’m not sure how any Mistress can run a proper business without her own personal Mr. Fix it in her back pocket. Honestly, I’ve tried, but you can’t exactly go off calling carpenters and craftsman from the phone book when you need to repair something in a dungeon. You’ll get a lot of odd looks and uncomfortable silences when you try to delicately explain what you need. You need a fellow kinkster who knows how to swing a hammer, hang book shelves and fix bondage furniture when it needs upkeep. It’s the…

This month has been nothing short of spectacular! Between moving into my gorgeous new home and staying incredibly busy in the dungeon having my way with you boys, I’ve barely had a free hour to simply sit in a chair and write out a little blog post! I’ve gotten more than my fair share of ultra long multi-hour appointments and revisits from regular playmates who have finally been able to set aside some time in their schedule for a little slap and tickle!  Though, I’ll never pass up a chance to keep you…

  Yesterday, a reader of mine sent me an email and casually mentioned she had her own blog, a start-up, and she was trying to get a bit more traffic. For good measure, she had taken the opportunity to add me as a sponsor and edited one of my images to create a beautiful banner – very creative! Naturally I took a peek, how could I not? I expected to do just that – take a quick peek – but what actually happened was that I spent the next 45 minutes deeply…

This last week has been an absolutely whirlwind for me and as many of you have pointed out, I haven’t had a chance to write a proper blog in about 5 days! With the weather returning to our Seattle version of ‘normal’, all of my play mates are coming out of the woodwork to get back into the swing of things. For me, instead of leaves changing, that’s the first hint of Fall approaching. That said, I’m ENTIRELY booked until next week! I can hardly believe that myself but I have…

Jason asks: Domina Victoria, I’ve been apprehensively admiring your backpage ads for a few weeks and recently I noticed a few listings for something called sensual domination. I’m wondering how that differs from what you do. Is it all the same or is sensual domination pain-free? I’d like to see you but I’m extremely new to this type of play and I think I’d want a beginners session.   Jason, I appreciate your question! To give you the easiest answer possible, let’s simply examine the word ‘sensual’. Sensual refers to an…

I gave my wax art project another shot, fine tuning just how precise I can really be with bits of dripping wax, and this (below) is what I came up with. I’m not really much of the artistic type in a traditional sense. I can’t draw or pain to save my life and the only thing I can really sculpt are…well…explicit items. Next week I’ll probably try a landscape scene just for shits and giggles, but I do like the way this one turned out.  

When I first started in BDSM – a way long time ago – I had limited knowledge of the wide world of toys out there. Of course, the typical visions of leather goods, paddles, whips, clamps and clips danced in my head, and of course, I envisioned how to use household objects in some very diabolical ways, but NEVER did I imagine the array of goodies I’d come face to face with a couple of years down the line. When I saw my first electro toy, a violet wand, I couldn’t…

Being a huge fan of Batman and a little bit of a movie whore, when Dark Knight Rises came out, I posted a few ads referencing BDSM sessions with Catwoman.  Naturally, I’ve been asked a million times if I have an actual catsuit, since the photos I posted were from a recent shoot instead of something more traditionally Catwoman-esque. These are just some quickly snapped cell phone photos but feel free to drool over my ultra shiny outfit just the same…. Better images coming as soon as I can wrangle my photog into another day…

First and foremost… Ladies: As we all love Top Hat, I can’t help but realize in the transition of ownership and current tone of the board, there is a possibility of us losing some content: reviews, ads, text. Now is the time to back that stuff up. Make copies, encourage your reviewers to repost your review elsewhere and be ready – just in case – something happens to the board. Also, it doesn’t hurt to point your clientele towards these other boards so we don’t lose viewers and traffic in the event of a…

Today I had a phenomenal session; a very realistic scenario involving a returning male playpet and a new female submissive! As rare as those types of scenes are, this one just worked out, all of us being of very like mind and agreeable personas. So what exactly happened…….? The premise, was that this playmate; this naughty, disobedient, self satisfying man – STOLE my sex slave!!!!!! He beckoned her away from my dungeon, leading her to believe I had given him permission to have her – for 10 days. After their long, licentious little…