“I’m working up the courage to see you.” ~ Entering & Returning To The BDSM World~

  “I’m still working up the courage to see you….”   I can’t be alone here, but I get this comment daily… multiple times daily on occasion, and it’s one I still can’t seem to overcome despite everything I post to present myself in a warm and welcoming light. The ‘plight’ of the Pro Domme is that visually, what draws our potential visitors in is the look for a hard core, no mercy woman who’s going to put you in your place: then punish you severely…swiftly…and without mercy. It’s what…

February reflections, recuperation and a little time off…

Pets and playmates, This post is a little belated for what I was hoping to publish, but I’m sure you’ll forgive me since I’ve been otherwise busy crowding your inboxes quite generously with kinky reading material. As I mentioned earlier in December, I will be taking the first week of February off to do some personal exploration, recuperation and catch up on some of the many tasks and errands I tend to set on the back burner when my life becomes a flurry of kinky and fun… Not that I…

Aggressively Expanding Your Horizons: 52 Weeks of Masturbation

    It’s easy to get caught in a sexual rut, isn’t it? While this might not be my personal speed bump,  I deal almost daily with  individuals who are frankly bored of their normal routine. Sex  is the driving force behind so much of what we do, it forms massive sectors of our personality and adds spark and intrigue to our daily lives. When it gets boring or there’s too much of the same what are you supposed to do about it? Be grateful you can still feel turned on…

Surrendering Your Senses (a slight expansion on hypno play)

  He was very much to the point on the phone…. A man with little time, but BIG curiosity: “I saw you had a hypno domination offering, he said, I’ve been following your blog for a while and I think I’d like to give it a try, though I’ve been pretty unsuccessful watching videos on my own ” Our conversation was rather short, but his message was singular and entirely expected. Hypnosis and BDSM *sounds* intriguing, but what if you’re skeptical or simply don’t think it’ll work on you?  …